Some people say, "Don't make foolish mistakes simply because they have figured out that there is a definite formula for success." Know the difference between living and existing.
Life Law No. 2: You create your own experience.
Accept and acknowledge that you are responsible for your life. You, not anyone else, are accountable for your life, whether it is a success or failure, happy or joyous, good or bad. Understand this. Diagnose your situation well that you may find the right solution. If you accept yourself as a victim, then there is no salvation for you. Accept your accountability now.
Assignment: Ask yourself:
* Why is my life causing me grief?
* Have I been foolish?
* Did I fool myself into believing my choices were not wrong?
* Must I stop my old behavior?
* Did I fail to take action?
* Am I looking in the wrong place for the answers?
Don't be a loser by blaming someone else.
Life Law No. 3: People do what works.
There is a payoff for every behavior. If you identify the pay offs you can control them, and then you can control your life.
Example: You have a family history of cancer, but you are a heavy smoker anyway. Or, you once had ulcers but you continue to drink just the same.
Reward good behavior, not bad behavior. Are you "feeding off some kind of payoffs" that may be detrimental to your mental and emotional health?
Example: You tolerate an abusive husband/wife only because you will not accept a separation/divorce.
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